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Everyone must have sad moment in their life. It is not just in the funeral, but at the sentimental situation, someone could feel so sad, especially women. But, what about men??? Well, in my previous article - Men Recently… - I have told you about men’s role and sensitivity. The indicators when he is sad are:

He is so quiet than usual. When his feeling so blue, he will close his mouth and answer your question briefly.

He becomes more calm than he was. You should take a little care when he suddenly watches soccer without any comment or sound and expression. It could be an indicator that he is sad. Another indicator is when you see him just stuck at home, doing nothing though usually he has plenty of activities within a week.

Ladies, please don’t do something stupid.

First, never push him to tell you what’s going on with his life. Later when he has feel comfort, he will tell you about his real problem.

Second, never ask too far about it. You don’t have to call his friends or families and ask many things about his problem.

Third, please don’t spread the story about his problem to anyone. If he knows that someone has known about it from your mouth, he will never tell something secret to you anymore, believe me!

Fourth, don’t give any abundant comment and suggestion. He needs to tell his feeling, not to add burden in his problem.

Fifth, don’t be fussy and too much complaint just because he becomes careless to you. Please realize that you live together with other people in the world, others also need cares, not just you.

And the last, please show that you care about him no matter he is in good or bad situation. When he feels sad, he needs you to be with him even all you can do is just sit and keep the silent.

So ladies, please understand each other…