It is great when you are ready to make a vow for a great wedding, but what if he can’t give you babies for certain reasons? If you have to choose, what is your choice? Will you still love him or just leave him?
Well, it is a great when love becomes the foundation of your marriage. You really love him deep inside your heart but without expecting, troubles can suddenly come and ruin your love. The presence of a baby can sometimes become the cure of your troubles and tightened the tie of your love.
It is normal for couples to expect the presence of a baby in their marriage, because many people believe that baby could complement a nuptial. However we should realize that the presence of a baby is a gift from God. We can not arrange a gift even just from a human being.
If you intend to have a baby soon after make a vow, I think you should think it over before the wedding happen. Maybe you should delay your wedding and wait until he is ready. If this could prevent you from an open conflict, why don’t you do that? But if you can not take it any longer, you better move to another man as an option to reach your dream of a baby. This is just an option to be thought.
But if the point of your reason to marry him is based on love, I think you should accept him just as he is, because nobody is perfect. Beside, there are so many children out there who need affection; you can adopt one of them. You should consider all things and still realize that a marriage and a baby is a gift from God.
the child photo by Barun Patro
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