There is a time when you meet a guy, feel comfort and you like him, what should you do? Do you just step by and say you like him? Well it’s not that easy for a woman (like me or others). One of the hardest things to do can be to tell some guy that you like him. Why? The bottom line is, it’s the fear of rejection. You have thought you will be rejected but the fact is you haven’t try it. One thing to consider is we ask people other questions all the days of our lives. You won’t know the result if you haven’t try it.
The real reason women get so nervous about this moment is not really the words, but because in a sense they are putting themselves up for rejection again - if the man doesn’t feel quite as strongly as they do, it can feel hurtful.
Well, the first important thing is you should know him more. Does he meet all the requirements? Or it’s just one of your unlucky imagination which pretend that you like this guy? Think it first, if you think that he is good enough to be liked, then what are you waiting for? The initial feelings of a relationship are strong and may cloud the truth. If you still feel the same after a month or so, then go for it!
Pick a moment when everything goes normal, not when you see him in a sad moment. If you have got the best moment, just say it and don’t wait any longer. You will know when the moment is right to do so, but remember just not to rush it.
Don’t worry about the word “NO”. Because there is nothing really to fear in the word no - it just means that he doesn’t value you (his loss) or just doesn’t think you are compatible (best to find out now) or he is seeing someone else (fair enough). Hearing the word ‘no’ is a learning experience. Here’s a thought for you the woman who never hears ‘no’ when asking a guy out has never had a relationship in her whole life. It’s a part of life, deal with it.
the image credit by Daniela Brokmeier
