When you were going steady or at the early stage of marriage, everyday you may find many romantic surprises from him, started from a bunch of flower, a bar of chocolate or maybe a little seduction on candle light dinner. Well, those can make you love him deeper, am I right? Yup, that’s right. But what happen when suddenly all the surprises have gone later after a year of marriage? He just come from office and suddenly sleeps away without a care that you exist. I think you don’t have to think so far that he has a mistress, because it could be a warning for you to not just drown in your career. It’s time for you to increase your sex appeal.
1. Admire yourself
Stop complaining about your weight or cellulites in the morning. A minute before you start all the activities, go to the mirror without any clothes. See yourself on the mirror and say, “What a sexy!”. Say it over and over until you feel comfort.
2. Ask him to dance
Well, it’s time for you to give him a surprise. Set your living room to a dance floor with a mild light and romantic song. Ask him to dance; he will never refuse especially when you are just wearing lingerie.
3. Set your bedroom
You can change the atmosphere of your bedroom with some aromatherapy candles and pick a pink or red bed-sheet.
4. Wear a sexy underwear
Pick the sexiest underwear you have and describe to your husband about the color and how does it look to your body, a minute before he goes to the office. I bet he will go back home as early as possible.
5. Keep the good smell of your body
The smell of your body is one of the great sex appeal which someone has. So, you have to keep clean and stay fresh all the time. Don’t forget to wash your body and use deodorant. Maybe you can use perfume contains of synthetic pheromone. It is an artificial substance which can increase his enthusiasm.
6. Give him an amicable caress and hot massage
You may believe it or not, but man love to be caressed. It is because he believes that a loving touch means you love him so much. Therefore, when he relaxes at the couch, just come and softly caress his hair. Oh, don’t forget to give him a hot massage to make him more relax and of course you can also explore his sensitive areas.
7. Stay charming
Get rid of messy hair, oily skin and bad smell of mouth, because these can make your hubby run away from you. You should take care of your body and appearance. If you love to perform without make up, I think sometimes you should surprise him with a dandy make up. It is more than enough to use a natural make up.
8. Make a fantasy
Nothing’s wrong with fantasy. You may develop wild imagination while making love with him and ask him to realize it for you. If he is ok with your request, then what are you waiting for?
the image credit by Matthew Bowden
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