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Have you read the article about 5 Real Toxics for Your Relationship? In that article I’ve said about the things which can ruin your relationship. Well, now I want to talk about an open argue between you and him. Having a different opinion sometimes may lead you to an argue with your man. You know what, it can also ruin your relationship but it can also make you and him know well each other if you argue in the right ways. Let’s find out the right ways when arguing.

1. Tell him what makes you inconvenience

You don’t have to yell when he made any mistake. Just tell him about your feeling and you don’t have to hide your anger any longer.

2. Don’t act like a drama-queen

Yup, maybe you can’t hold your emotion for any longer, so without being realized, tears drop from your eyes. It could make him also feel sad. But just don’t cry out loud with real big tears, it will make him run.

3. Start your sentences with “I feel… when you…”

For example when he came late, just say “I feel you not value me as your girlfriend when you waste your time and come late.” It is enough to make him think and put himself in your position. He also knows what you feel about. Well, even it doesn’t make any guarantee that he will admit his mistake, but at least you have made him heard your words.

4. Focus on the first reason of arguing

Just stick to the rudiments. Don’t make it any wider by telling his other mistake that he done a day, week or maybe month ago.

5. Say absolutely “NO” to offensive language or act

No matter how angry you are, you should watch your language. Moreover, never hit or slap him. Physical abuse will make things worst. If he says and intends to hurt your body, never feel worry to leave him right now.

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