When you are talking about commitment with your man, he often has a different opinion and tends to avoid this kind od conversation. What is it all about that makes men often afraid to talk it over? Do they afraid to go along with commitment when they are in a relationship? Well, let’s find out more about how men consider a relationship…
1. Commitment is the same as nightmare
Men are afraid to hear the word “commitment”, because it is the same with a limitation to date the other cute girls. It will make them have to go home earlier after workhour because they should pick up their wife. Well, it sounds like a nightmare to them when they haven’t ready yet.
2. Love is not the main thing
Do you think that men will get married most because of love? Just forget it!! If they have decided to get married, the two main reasons are they want to have a comfort and balance life, also they expect warmth and understanding from you.
3. Attitude changing
When men are ready to get married, in their mind, bachelor’s life is not as interesting as before. According to a survey by John Malloy, when a man ready to get married, he tends to lose his interest of visiting cafe, club or his favorite bar.
4. Forget some important days
Does he forget some of the important days? Don’t be suspicious and thin that he has another woman. Men can only focus on one thing, so when he has been so busy about his work, he will forget many things.
5. Different priority
Men are different from women when consider about relationship. Women often give priority to the relationship and too much concern about what happen everyday. In a relationship, men often consider a purpose as the main priority. For them, the last result of the relation is matter.
6. Inconsistency
Yup, inconsistency is one of men’s biggest attitude. Now he will say ‘yes’, but tomorrow don’t be surprised if he says ‘no’.
7. Trustworthy-person
Well, maybe men are so inconsistent. But believe me, men are trustworthy. Eventhough they are affraid to commit in a serious relation, when they decided to get married, they will consider their marriage, wife and family is the most important thing in their life. For those who ever involved in an affair and who then able to stop the affair are those who are unable to cheat on their wife and marriage. They afraid to lose their family.
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