Saying “I Love u” is simple and easy for women, but is it the same as in men’s thought? Men are rarely to say it even though they realize that they are falling in love. Well, what happen to men? What makes them so hard to say it? What is the meaning of love in their mind? Let’s find out…
1. Saying “I Love U”
Well, man is not so smart to tell us what’s inside his heart. That’s why he often says something using his body language. For example, when he has felt comfort with his date, he will sit beside her or maybe hold her hand. It is also a sign for the other men to stay far from his girl.
2. Not able to say “I Love u”
One of the main reasons why men hard to say “I Love u” is they are too afraid of life-time responsibility burden. In their minds, it is the same with commitment and it means that they will lose their bachelor term.
3. Love without any Logical Reason
Many of them can not explain why they fall in love. They just think that they suppose to walk in their life only with the chosen one. However, some of them will say that they fall in love because of someone’s identity or maybe just because of her appearance.
4. Romantic and so Emotional
Woman is a romantic species in the world who is easy to deeply fall in love even without any expectation. But, guess what? Men is more romantic and emotional when they fall in love. If you don’t realize this, just remember how your husband was so dramatic when he asked you to marry him. He will bring a bunch of rose, buy you a bar of chocolate or everything to make you happy. But please don’t expect his romantic action will go in a life-time, because it will soon disappear when his laziness has showed up.
5. Special Present
When you are in a long time relationship and he often gives you an expensive jewellery, or dress, it could be a sign that you are so special in his heart. He appreciates you physically and loves you personally. He also wants to have a serious relationship with you.
6. Love or Lust?
Actually, men often confuse with their feeling. They are not sure whether it is a love or just a lust, because their brain are dominated with testosterone which makes them do not think as straight as women. However, sometimes they just realize that they are in love after a long time in a relationship.
Well, you may trust of what I have said above or even doubt everything about it. But if you really want to prove it, just compare it with your man or maybe ex-man. If you find out that those are valid, don’t forget to share it here.
the image credit by B S K
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