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What I wished to tell you here is about lately phenomenon on men. Well, according to several books I’ve read and films I’ve watched, I conclude that lately most of men are becoming more sensitive. Why I said that? Previously, it was rare to see a man crying, men always have power to role and tears were the sissy symbol.

Remember the phrase “Boys don’t cry”? Yes, you recognize this phrase, but nowadays it is a common thing to see him in tears, even just for a movie scene or in a real life. Then we get used to with term “metrosexual man”, it is a sign that the society no longer object with a man who is doing “women things”, such as go to the beauty salon or shop, do manicure and pedicure, or wear pink shirt.

Do you have any clue for this phenomenon? Is it because they are trying to attract women by doing this “women thing” or they are really becoming a brittle toy? Alright, you can find the answers for yourself.

The second is about when women have taken the role in the family and men become not so dominant in love ties. You can see men would suck their pride just for women. Well, women seem to cover themselves with armors and weapons, just like a woman soldier. Maybe men will think that now it is hard enough to ask you to wash their clothes or even help them making a coffee. And for some cases, suicide becomes men act when his heart is broken because of woman.

Well, there are still many dominant persons among men, but still women have decided not to be a victim anymore. Maybe this is the main reason why men become weakling.

Ladies, don’t feel guilty with these symptoms. All you have to do is appreciate. Once you have appreciated yourself, you will appreciate him. It is hardly easy making his feeling esteemed; you just have to hear his voice whenever he wishes to do something. Appreciate his opinion about what kind of shoes or dress you wish to buy. Never turn to “dictator” in your family even though you are the breadwinner. And the last is, never felt that you will lost your honor when you say “thank you for your concern!”, because recently, men are really need to be appreciated and to be treated just like a child. They need hugs and many kisses before sleep, not just sex.

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